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i took this test..it gave me this result..lol

http://hokev.brinkster.net/quiz/

eXpressive: 4/10
Practical: 5/10
Physical: 6/10
Giver: 6/10


You are a RPYG--Reserved Practical Physical Giver. This makes you a 1950s Parent.

You are relentlessly patient, loving, generous and devoted. You are unflappable. If on some rare occasion you do raise your voice or say a swear word in anger, anyone around to hear it will remember it (and think it was funny). At the same time, you're very cute and charming, and even if you don't catch someone's eye at the beginning of the night you'll surely have their attention by the end.

Your calm, conservative nature conceals a passionate (and sexy!) heart.

You can have trouble bringing up problems, but your approach to conflict is calm and even-handed. The problem can be is that you are so busy worrying about your partner's satisfaction that you don't ensure your own. This can build up over time and make you restless. Despite your sexual nature, you are more likely to cheat emotionally than physically.

You tend to work out your frustrations in the bedroom. Depending on your partner, this can be an excellent strategy. You would be a great candidate to balance out an XSYT, but not a good match for an unappreciative RPYT.

You have an odd, ritualized vice that doesn't suit the rest of your persona -- like smoking a certain brand of cigarettes or drinking a certain kind of wine.

Of the 183826 people who have taken this quiz, 4.8 % are this type.

the test said further that he is:

eXpressive: 2/10
Practical: 7/10
Physical: 5/10
Giver: 4/10


You are a RPYT--Reserved Practical Physical Taker. This makes you a Stoic.

You are intelligent, rugged, disciplined and profound. Even if you're saddled with a desk job, you are starving for the outdoors. You are very slow to warm up to people, and people are slow to warm up to you, but once they know you they never forget you.

You do not get much attention from your target sex, and this means you can feel unloved or unwanted. This is not the case! You are just a hard nut to crack, and your social anxiety leaves you overlooked or outside the frame altogether. What is good for you is increments of low-interaction group activity, like sports or outdoor work. The person who can chop wood with you will melt your heart.

In a long term relationship, you are loving and devoted. You are calm in a conflict until your partner presses your buttons -- it's never the problem at hand that gets under your skin, but how your partner handles it. Don't take offense! Sometimes it's just the only way your partner knows how to express things.

You would never cheat, and your approach to sex is conventional and almost prudish. But sex for you is a release and a necessity of life, and you have a sense of entitlement about it that can be trouble. Make sure your partner is comfortable and satisfied -- by communicating both in and out of the bedroom -- and you will be more satisfied yourself.

You may take a lot of what your partner does for granted. Make a special effort to reward and validate him/her, and you will be repaid in spades.

You have nice legs.

Of the 184648 people who have taken this quiz, 4.1 % are this type.

Of innocence, negativity and perversion

I am self-confessed chatter, reformed chat addict, hopeless romantic and once in a while a total neurotic rolled into one.. I know someone will call that cognitive dissonance or something like that..

I have met a lot of wonderful people throughout my cybercitizenship, some of whom I became fast friends with to this day. Of course I made a record of falling stupidly attached to someone I hadn’t met in person. It was a record because I had always been very protective of myself, until I let down my guard that caused an irreparable damage of breaking my heart. It has long been history and hatchets have long been buried. But that experience made me sought refuge to becoming a rule #1 staunch advocate.

Whether or not I remained faithful in that advocacy is another story. (*blush*)

During the course of that advocacy, I got to interact with young men, who made me want to set aside those beliefs. It was a rather difficult quest though. Afterall, when you have had you heart broken for the first time, it wouldn’t be a pleasant ride ahead.

But I have always had a positive attitude about humanity, thus it didn’t deter me from making friends anyway.

One of those guys was cutie, sexy and poetic. We didn’t have much smart conversations but he had this emotional side that warmed him up to me. He wouldn’t talk much except when talking about one topic that I wouldn’t dare articulate..I think he got tired of talking to me eventually, because I think at that time I was still a little bitter over that heartbreaking experience.

After over a year of disappearance, he came alive sounding very happy over an engagement to a lovely lass. I was pleasantly surprised to hear from him. I had nothing but genuine happiness for him.

To make the long story even longer, he and I became good friends. I guess like any good friend that I am to anyone, I harassed him with useless diatribes, which eventually appeared like an attack to him. I was branded primarily as someone who employs negativity most of the times..

I guess to a certain degree he may be right. He was something that my boyfriend wasn’t. He was always sweet..he always found time to talk to me. I think that was the bottom line of his faults. Poor kid..

Until he told me how they broke up and stuff…And then there was our last conversation. I have always looked up to him as a friend. And what happened between us in the past has long been buried. I was sooo close to reconsidering his appeals…lol (don’t ask!)

Anywayz, imagine a person whom you thought you can trust...someone whom you consider a friend..would suddenly stand up and show off his member.(!@#$%^&*()_+) When confronted about it, he would say he was just being open.. I don’t know if I am nuts or if he is…or it could be a socio-cultural barrier. Maybe in his country it is OK to show it off, but where I come from, those who do such a thing are called exhibitionists..they are considered sick, and must go see a doctor.

What I can’t believe though is that he thought I was as usual being negative…that I was being critical, and that I was the one who needed to see a shrink.

Oh well… It is never a loss to find out what people are really like before you get to meet them. I am lucky (for lack of a better term) to find out sooner.

Expose'

All About Me:

10 Random Facts About Me:
1. Singing is my secret passion but my voice isn’t too supportive.
2. It takes a lot of hard work to make me fall in love but when I do, I tend to take the relationship too seriously too fast. L
3. I am a certified Jesus freak. He is the Leader of my life and I live to please Him.
4. It is my secret ambition to write a book on courage and love letters from God, among others.
5. A lot of people think I am too serious, which is partly true, except that I don’t take myself seriously.
6. I believe that God makes everything perfect in His time.
7. The beach is the best place to relax.
8. It is less hurtful for me to know the truth now than to be finding out later.
9. I could sit for hours reading a good book and not be bored.
10. Guys say I am mean, and maybe so, but I seriously think I am sweet. : p

9 Places I’ve Visited:
1. Bohol (my father is from there)
2. Malapascua (haha! practicing for Boracay)
3. Boracay (Christmas is not a good time to go there)
4. Jakarta (they mistook me for a local)
5. Bantayan Island (now, that’s paradise)
6. Dumaguete to Bacolod Roadtrip
7. Historic Dapitan
8. Hardrock in San Remegio (it is a good place to sing your heart out)
9. Davao City (I’d love to go there again)

8 Things I Want to do Before I die:
1. Meet someone worth forsaking single hood for
2. Write books and go on a book signing tour
3. Go skydiving
4. Tour the world with my husband and children
5. Put up a Foundation for the Youth, Education, etc.
6. Master the sowing principle and harvesting from it
7. Go to various missions trips
8. Disciple as many women that I will be privileged to connect with

7 Ways to Win My Heart:
1. Laugh with me
2. Sing for me
3. Eat with me
4. Talk/Write to me
5. Be passionate about life
6. Love God with all your heart, mind, soul and strength and be actively involved in your local church
7. Don’t try too hard…Just be yourself

6 Things I Believe:
1. God, Jesus, the Holy Spirit
2. Life is full of choices.
3. Jesus is crazily in love with me.
4. Love is a decision
5. When people submit to Jesus, genuine change can take place.
6. I have a destiny, that no one else can fill.

5 Things I am Afraid of:
1. SIN
2. not fulfilling what I am called to do and accomplish in this planet
3. terror
4. saying anything damaging
5. snakes

4 of my Favorite Items in my Bedroom:
1. my Bible, devotional notes
2. books
3. that area that I call bed
4. pictures

3 Things I do Everyday:
1. read my Bible, pray, speak in tongues
2. take a bath
3. change fresh clothes

2 Things I am Thinking of Right Now:
1. vacation
2. new job assignment

1 Person I Want to See Right Now:
1. ummm…you?